Life it's just like that

In Life there are sometimes somethings happening that you tend

to say, " life's like that " but as the thought goes " life is what we

make of it." There are times when we are happy sometimes sad

sometimes thinking and sometimes just blank........it happens with

almost everyone.

Just the other day I was travelling in a crowded train and there

happened to be a lady with a plaster in her hand trying to find her

way in. She some how managed to get in and there were all those

people in the train helping her out except one...........there was a lady

who started screaming at her saying all sorts of bad things and

that she should'nt be boarding the train and all those stuff.

At first thought we may think she should have too shouted at her

well I myself thought why does'n she just shut up. But to my surprise

this lady with a broken hand did'nt speak a word she just smiled at the lady

who was shouting at her!!

Well, after seeing this though that lady did'nt react quit positively

but I am sure it will make some impact on her; may be she might just

realise her mistake when she'll think of all that happend in the day.

That's how things go on and we when in such situation's start thinking

" oh! where am i and what's all this, life's just so unfair and life's just

like that."

In life things are such that if we mind that's when it will matter so.......

a change in the way we think might just do the trick.

Just like it's said, " If it is to be it's up to me ". So if i wanna be happy

i'll be let whatever may come. Being happy does mean happiness in ones life.

Happiness:What's this happiness all about?

Happiness is an emotion in which one experiences feelings

ranging from contentment and satisfaction to bliss and intense

joy.In his book ' Authentic Happiness ' , ' Martin Seligman ' , one of

the founders of Positive psychology, describes happiness as

consisting of 'positive emotions' and 'positive activities'.

Happiness is like a ray of sunlight which warms us and keeps

us glowing. We can't live without it.

There was an other instance when I and one of my friend were

taking a morning walk and just heard some comotion, i guess it

was some household fight and we just stood there for some time

there were many people gathered there but it were just those

words we could here and just when we were about to leave i heard

one of those fighting shout "I just need some peace of mind."

Then there i was thinking what's peace of mind? This is what I found out about peace of mind.

Peace of mind: It is a state

of inner calmness and tranquility, together with a sense of

freedom, when thoughts and worries cease, and there is no

stress, strain or fear. Such moments are not so rare. They may

be experienced while engaged in some kind of an absorbing

and interesting activity, such as while watching an interesting

movie or TV program, while being with someone you love, while

reading a book or while lying on the sand at the beach. Most

people would be glad to have some peace of mind in their lives.

They would be happy to forget their troubles, problems and

worries, and enjoy a few moments of inner calmness and

freedom from obsessing thoughts. But then even we could be

one of those just as I mentioned before, 'If it is to be its up to me.'

So dear folks its all upto us when it come to be happy or to be at

peace in life.

All this written here is but a few things about life Ican say it's too less

that way there is a lot more to life which can be written about but then

it's just like that.